A Caveat, Plus MORE CHAIRS

 Oh, hi!

Really? After a 6-month absence, that's how I'm starting out?

Give me this, it's been a whopper of a 6-month period, okay? And I'll confess, part of my absence has been because it's been hard for me to balance giving cheerful little accounts of our family's day-to-day doings while also experiencing (along with everyone else) the societal/political turmoil and chaos that is affecting a lot of families, including ours. It just felt a little tone deaf, you know?

Flower box arrangement by Susie, who is glad she's in college right now and not looking for a job in this market

Still, I don't want to lose this record of our daily lives, either. I love looking back and remembering all the things I've jotted down over the past (OMG) 18 years. How do I keep that while not seeming oblivious to everything (waves vaguely) out there?

What did the 1930's Germans do about their blogs, I wonder? LOL, ROTFL, see it's just not funny, ugh

So I am back with my stupid, inconsequential stories, because skipping them isn't going to help anything or anyone. Hopefully they'll provide some respite from the horror, I dunno. 

Am I mentioning this just so readers won't think I'm totally shallow and annoying? Probably.

Back to our regularly scheduled programming!

If you recall, last time we spoke, Larry and I were suffering a deficit of dining chairs (2 tables, 6 chairs), with Thanksgiving becoming a BYOChair event. Now, if you will believe it, we are the somewhat flummoxed owners of 16 (COUNT THEM SIXTEEN) dining chairs. 

It started in February, when I took matters into my own hands to procure some used kitchen chairs that provided my long-desired pop of color:

Can't really explain the teddy bear as a centerpiece, oh well

They go well with the dilapidated chrome padded chairs and are a cheerful powder blue, which makes me happy but probably bothers Larry no end (remember, he doesn't believe in fun-colored furniture). We moved the 4 black kitchen chairs to the dining room, which really didn't look too bad with the wood table, but really, I just never wanted to think about chairs again. Ever. Larry also seemed to be happy not discussing this stupid topic anymore. 

Total number of chairs? 10, a somewhat reasonable number -- not quite enough for holiday dinners, but hey, it was only February, we had time.

Fast forward 5 months (and really, where DOES the time go?!?): I came home from work (more on that later) last Sunday to find what we can only describe as The Miracle of the Chairs in my dining room:

Free table, $30 chairs, that only took 8 months

That's right, folks - Larry finally found the long-sought-after but discontinued West Elm chairs on Marketplace at a low, low price and brought them home. He is very happy with himself, even though we now own too many chairs, and I can tell he is eyeing my pretty blue ones as the ones to go.

SIXTEEN CHAIRS, that's ridiculous

In January I started a new job:

Susie worked at our local Trader Joe's for two years before selfishly going off to college and living her own life, and I really missed that 20% discount we used to get. Also? I was sitting around all day scrolling the internet (not good) and waxing maudlin while gazing at pictures of my kids when they were little (downright pathetic, okay?). NOW, I work about 30 hours a week and get a ton more done around the house, because I have less time to do it in, and there's a psychological term for that but I've forgotten it.

Also, I get paid. I like having money, because I get to spend it on my grandkids.

Was that plural? Why, yes, yes it was - Rachel (RACHEL) gave birth in February to a very cute baby girl and OMG I had completely forgotten what a trainwreck those first few months could be. But we're finally at the point where she (the baby, not Rachel) does all the cute baby stuff, giggling and blowing raspberries and snuggling, and seriously, I have no memories of my babies before 5 months, apparently. NONE. 

  

Our empty nest has a bunch of this stuff in it again

Rachel and the baby stayed with us for a few weeks in June while her husband was away on TDY and Larry and I helped out (minimally) with the baby and were COMPLETELY EXHAUSTED. I have no idea how we did all that SIX TIMES.

This cutie joins her 21-month-old cousin, who has adorable little pigtails on top of her head (that droop in the humidity, and really, aren't we all just like those pigtails?) and I have never so badly wanted to post people photos on this blog, but Larry's rule holds firm (also, my kids wouldn't let me, either, oh well). 

Let's start calling the older grandbaby Olivia and her little cousin can be Sissy, since I can't just say "the grandbaby" anymore. Wow, I haven't had to make up blog names in a very long time, that's weird.

This isn't the beach, it's THE SHORE, because New Jersey

Earlier in June, Larry and I rented a beach house for a week on LBI and several adult children consented to join us, including Rachel and spouse and newest grandbaby, and it was actually pleasant because I wasn't responsible for anyone's happiness but my own (which, after all those years of vacationing/camping with kids, still feels quite novel and refreshing). Also, adult children on budgets naturally tend to appreciate a free vacation more than dependent children/teens do, so that's nice

Obligatory sunset-over-the-bay photo

Next week? We are flying to the Seattle area and visiting Olympic National Park. This is happening because during one of our heatwaves in June, I pretty much snapped and dropped a boatload of money on airline tickets and an Airbnb, and I'm glad I did, because it gave me something to look forward to through all the subsequent heatwaves in July. 

I cannot wait to leave this weather behind for a week, I feel as though I am living in the armpit of hell. Predicted weather for our vacation is 50s and 60s, so I guess I'll need to bring a parka or something, which is fine by me.

David is meeting us at the park, but we will NOT be doing the mountains with him, having learned our lesson last year. We're hitting the beach trails instead, and - considering the West is definitely another planet - I'm sure we'll find those challenging enough. Wish me luck!