Thoughts on camping and returning home:
Brian (formerly known as the Smile-y Child
) was upset that we dragged him on vacation with us. He's 14 - I really don't know what else he expected us to do. He took a page from Anna's book
by becoming immune to any sense of awe that might have been engendered by the natural wonders we visited. I attribute his misery to acute Lego withdrawal
|Brian was unimpressed by views such as these.|
David (17) did not seem thrilled to be with us either, but he kept it under wraps fairly well. We'll just not speak about the evening he stole the batteries from Brian's lantern because the boys were fighting like toddlers over when to turn out the light in the tent. I spent the rest of that night wondering where I had gone wrong. Seriously.
Having had to spend our life savings on bike racks to affix 3 of our bicycles to the top of the van, Larry and I were DETERMINED to get our money's worth by biking on our vacation. But the first time we biked, on Maine's Eastern Trail, Susie cried because we made her pedal for 5 miles and there was no place to buy ice cream at the end. The second time, now in Acadia, she was upset because the trail was packed gravel instead of paved. The third time? There was a long ascent at the beginning which totally psyched her out. The rest of us ended up going on ahead while Larry walked with her until she decided it was "downhill-y" enough to get on her bike again. She cried again. A lot. People stared.
I'm sharing this so you will understand that, when you see all those pictures on Facebook of people biking with their kids or see those minivans tooling along the highway with bikes on them and you think, "Oh, hey, that family is having more fun than we are"? They're NOT.
|Our van didn't quite look like this, but it FELT like it.|
There is a septic tank servicing company on Mount Desert Island that goes by the name Royal Flush. I needed to share that fact with you. I don't know why.
When we last visited Acadia
, the children ranged in age from 4-17, and Larry and I were exhausted
with the effort required to get 8 people into a minivan and all the way up to Maine. That vacation is a blur, our memories only aided by the pictures we took. 5 years have gone by, and those children - that family, really - are gone. 2 literally, grown and on their own, and the others grown older, less of a unit, less ours
. These past 2 weeks, The Horse and His Boy
kept coming to mind, that part where Aravis is hurrying through the Tisroc's gardens during her escape from the palace and C. S. Lewis comments, "One of the drawbacks about adventures is that when you come to the most beautiful places, you are often too anxious and hurried to appreciate them...." The most beautiful times as a family are when all the children are young, but you are too tired and stressed at that point to appreciate it sufficiently. I feel very weepy as I type this.
I didn't look at my email for over a week. This attempt to relax ended up backfiring, because - by the last night of vacation - I was having nightmares about what might be awaiting me in my inbox.
Camping tip: when you find yourself arguing with your spouse (in loud whispers, so as not to wake the children) about where to pack the plastic food storage containers and, in a supreme hissy fit, he douses the campfire you were enjoying? It's time to head home.
Camping outdoors for 2 weeks makes you forget that there is such a thing as living INSIDE. Home seems dim and far away. When you do get home, you wonder why you have all that extra stuff. You wonder if maybe you can live up north, away from the horrible humidity that is sucking the life out of you as you empty the camper and bark orders at the kids. You look up house prices in New England. You swear at the mosquitoes.
And then you run into your neighbors, out for a walk, happy to talk to you, and you remember it's the people, not the place. I love my neighbors. All of them.
Still, we could
[Acadia image: AllTrips]
[Bikes on van image: Allee Willis blog]